Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Alice Caroline Carpenter with the following comment:
My gr.gr. grandparents had an Alice Carpenter staying with them in the 1881c in Kent. I am trying to research this femily and am hoping this Alice will throw some clues for me with who her parents were. It is so hard doing research from New Zealand, I cannot get any further back than my gr.gr. grandfather George Carpenter. Alice was stated as being a niece in 1881c. Love your site. Betty